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My entry was full of sunshine and roses about our baby-to-be, our wonderful life, my loving husband. His post talked of getting blown by a contractor in the server room at work.įor so many years, he’d lied to me while I naively believed his stories of late nights and required weekends at the office. He wrote of meeting strangers in motels, convenient hookups just around the corner from the preschool (don’t want to be late for afternoon pickup!), encounters in parking lots. One of the most recent posts even described a threesome at our house the night the kids and I moved out. I now understood why the divorce negotiations had proceeded so rapidly. He was terrified he’d be exposed as the calculating bastard he is - not simply a closeted gay man caught after a careless indiscretion. In one blog entry, he’d even boasted about his refusal to use condoms. (Thankfully, I was fortunate enough to escape the many dangers that could have caused.)īefore this, I’d actually felt pity for this man, believing he’d tried to honor his marriage vows. How could I trust any memory, when it had all been built on a lie? But at that moment, all of the memories I held of our life together were stripped away. I was utterly disgusted, humiliated and completely and utterly alone - hours away from any friends and family who could have supported me.
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I was solely responsible for two scared, disoriented little people who needed me to fill sippy cups and change diapers, find Dora the Explorer on TV and sing “Bushel and a Peck” as I tucked them in at night. While I wish I could say I picked myself up and immediately rose to the challenge, it is not the truth.
I stumbled -badly - before the children and I found our new normal. And today we have a life so much better than anything I could have imagined back then. He is still part of his children’s lives, and therefore, by proxy, part of mine as well. But beyond knowing he is gay, the children know nothing of the rest of the story. Magic and Isiah famously kissed before games.We’ve been divorced now for longer than we were married, but I still google him on occasion, just to see if he’s started any new Web ventures.Īfter I confronted my ex, he deleted all the content from his blog posts, though the site’s framework is still in place. In an upcoming book, basketball's Magic Johnson blames Isiah Thomas for rumors that Johnson was gay at the time Johnson stunned the world by announcing he was HIV-positive. "Isiah kept questioning people about it," Magic says in the book "When the Game Was Ours," written by Johnson, Larry Bird and longtime NBA reporter by Jackie MacMullan. It was like he kicked me in the stomach." The one guy I thought I could count on had all these doubts. Johnson's announcement in 1991 while with the Los Angeles Lakers that he was HIV-positive made headlines around the world and led to intense speculation on how he got the virus. Johnson has always maintained he got it from sleeping with women, even though that was not a common route of transmission in the U.S.Ī sports editor at the time, I had long heard rumors that Johnson engaged in man-to-man sex, something he has always denied. In the book, Johnson's agent Lon Rosen recalled this exchange he said he has with Thomas: Far from it," he told Sports Illustrated at the time.īut Johnson is blaming Thomas, then with the Detroit Pistons, for spreading rumors that he was gay.
"I know,'' Thomas answers, "but I don't know what he's doing when he's out there in L.A.'' "C'mon, Isiah, you know Earvin better than anyone,'' Rosen replies. On Thursday, Thomas told Sports Illustrated that he felt blindsided by the allegations, saying Johnson has never confronted him about them. "What most people don't know is, before Magic had HIV, my brother had HIV,'' Thomas said. "My brother died of HIV, AIDS, drug abuse. So I knew way more about the disease, because I was living with it in my house. "Magic acted and responded off some really bad information that he got,'' Thomas went on. "Whatever friendship we had, I thought it was bulls- that he believed that.
Let me put it to you this way: If he and I were such close friends, if I was questioning his sexuality, then I was questioning mine too. What adds a twist to this was that Thomas was the one player most welcoming to Johnson when he returned to the NBA in 1992 the two had been longtime close friends.